This is an
excerpt from Nutan Pandit's book 'Pregnancy - The Complete Childbirth
Book'. This is a topic less
discussed and couple feel hesitant to ask as to what they should do about
their sexual desires during pregnancy.
In fact, Sex in pregnancy is perfectly normal. It can
bring a new delight with it since contraception is out of the way. However,
if you have previously lost a baby or miscarried, the doctor may tell you to
avoid sex when your period would have been due, or generally. If you've been
asked to avoid intercourse, you can always indulge in caressing, stroking,
kissing etc. Do not feel shy to ask the doctor how long you have to avoid
intercourse, since doctors may forget to say when you are past the time and
you are likely to miscarry...
...Some women feel inclined towards sex in pregnancy,
while others do not. When making love certain consideration have to be kept
in mind, like the growing abdomen or the increased sensitivity of the
breasts. Different positions can be experiment with, in accordance with
whatever is comfortable.
Men often fear that during intercourse they may in some
way harm the baby. You cannot hurt the baby during intercourse. The baby is
protected by water bag and water around it. The water acts as a shock
absorber to protect the baby from accidental blows or jerks. The uterus is
housed in the bony framework of pelvic bones, which provide protection. In
the mouth of the womb, the cervix, is a plug of mucus which seals the womb
and prevents infection from entering the womb...